Being Curious
Curiosity killed the cat, they say…but
only after it had used up its nine lives.
Being inquisitive and interested in people, things, and events is an
admirable characteristic, both because it increases your own learning and also
because it’s infectious. If you display
curiosity, those around you will be more curious than they would otherwise have
been.
This will not only empower you you'll gain greater understanding, stronger relationships and learning from your friends, employees, peers or fellow networkers.
An open, enquiring mind is a
pre-requisite for continuous learning and development. The alternative, a closed mind, is a recipe
for stagnation and for the rate of change to exceed the rate of learning.
If you’re not already the sort of
person who displays curiosity, it’s possible for you to learn to become
so. How easy or difficult this will be
depends on your starting point. If you
feel curious, interested, and inquisitive…but don’t exhibit those behaviours,
it’s comparatively easy to adopt behaviours that will demonstrate your
curiosity. You could, for example,
embrace a commitment to talk to people about what interests them, ask lots of questions, and demonstrate
how interested you are in them. By
feeling interested you’re already halfway there and these behaviours should be
quite easy to adopt.
If you don’t feel interested, it’s
quite possible to feign interest. Most
people will discover that if they pretend to be interested then they start to
feel interested (fake it till you make it).
Your outward, exhibited behaviour will affect your inner feelings…rather
than the other way round.
Curiosity provides the springboard for
learning and development. Curious,
inquisitive people tend to:
- ask
lots of questions
- think
out loud
- play
devil’s advocate
- dig and delve
to find out more
- formulate and reformulate “theories”
- have
lots of ideas
- challenge
conventional thinking
This is an admirable list. The downside is that people who are curious
will often flit, butterfly-like, from one interest to another and not sustain
their enthusiasm for any one thing. As a
result they fail to see things through to a conclusion. They are good starters, but poor
finishers. If this describes you, even
just sometimes, you can correct this tendency by working to maintain your
interest, continually checking to ensure that your people are completing the
things they've started.
Consistent curiosity is vital…the
lifeblood of continuous improvement. All
learning and development emanates from an insatiable curiosity.
And that’s worth
thinking about…
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