Defining our goal is particularly important
because our subconscious requires very clear instructions of what we want. Any vagueness or self doubt when defining our goals will
result in a poor picture a weak vision of what you will achieve.
Specific:
Your goal or goals should be always be clearly and positively defined, the why you need to achieve it. In this way, they should
relate to outcomes and actions that are specific rather than ones that are
general. Rather than simply say that we
are going to be a better manager or that we are going to get fitter, we should
be looking to describe in exactly what way we are going to be a better manager
and in exactly what way we are going to get fitter. Note if you are unable to articulate clearly the why, the likelihood is 'ITs NOT A GOAL'!
Attainable: Many people set goals that are completely out of reach for them or knowingly impossible to achieve. Although this practice is clearly self-defeating, many people do this in order to have a built-in excuse for not achieving their goals. We must always have a realistic chance of reaching our goals, combined with a belief that we can reach them, in order to stay committed to them. This is the essence of “realistic” goal setting, although we must be careful how we use this term – extraordinary things are not achieved by realistic people! The use of “fantastic” goals – those that relate more to the original dreams and aspirations that motivated us towards making our goals in the first place – can be extremely useful too. Incorporated within our visualisation they can be extremely motivational and help support our realistic goals – so long as we employ them appropriately.
Repeatable: Your goals should achieve long term change. Short-term and intermediate goals (sub-goals), meanwhile, provide useful “stepping stones” that can help us to maintain our focus. In order to do this, however, our goals not only have to be measurable – they need to be repeatable too. This also helps in monitoring our progress towards our goals.
Exciting and Fun: Many people set goals that are so low as to present no challenge to them. Often this is because their goals are ones that they feel that they “should” be working towards rather than ones that they really “want” to work towards. Sometimes it is because they have borrowed someone else’s goals rather than deciding upon their own. Goals should be motivating and, as such, need to be exciting. If our goals do not excite us, we need to redefine and upgrade them or exchange them altogether. And remember to enjoy the journey.
Recorded: Recording our goals is extremely important – both by communicating them to other people and simply writing them down. By doing so we provide ourselves with prominent permanent reminders of what we want to achieve and how we are going to achieve it. In this way, the use of goal setting cards can be extremely useful in helping us to maintain focus on our goals, whilst written agreements, pledges and declarations can enhance our level of commitment by tying us into a “psychological contract”.
SO WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR, YOU’VE GOT THE HOW TO SET YOUR GOALS, KNOW THE LIMITATIONS YOU POSSESS AND NOW HOW, SO DO IT, MOVE YOUR LIFE FORWARD AND ACHIEVE YOUR DREAMS. BE WHO YOU DEFINE YOURSELF AS!
there are 3 Kinds of Goals and they serve 4 fundamental purpose
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